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The Perils of the Unconscious Mind

Peter Forde
October 20, 2004

In a recent essay I offered a proposition that many women will no doubt find challenging:

“…….many women have fallen victim to deep, unconscious ‘feelings’ derived from a deliberate and mostly unrealised brainwashing process they have been subjected to over the past thirty-some years. It’s no secret that feminists have long promoted a broad (no pun, honest!) view of the “evil white maleâ€?, dominating, suppressing and generally being the scourge of womankind.
Some of that ‘mud’ sticks—often deep inside the psyche of women who do not come close to understanding how severely their deepest thoughts and feelings have been affected by the regular and often subtle bombardment of such deceitful and disingenuous messages. Becoming an unconscious victim of relentless visual and auditory barrages is merely another natural consequence of simply being not specifically a woman, but human.
As a result, deep inside the psyche many a modern female is an unconscious desire to destroy ‘the enemy’—men—before ‘the enemy’ (she thinks) can destroy her……..
Feminism has done far more damage to modern women, and therefore to the overall wellness of society, than most can possibly imagine…..â€?

Just this morning I was presented with yet another classic, in-my-face example of this disturbing problem..

ABC Radio presenter Tricia Duffield was having an on-air conversation with colleague Steve Austin. They were discussing this year’s Brisbane Ekka.

Said Steve (more or less), “It was wonderful to see so many fathers, husbands and partners at the show with their kids, having a great time as a family unit.�

Responded Tricia instantly, “Yeah, trying to be heroes.�

I mean instantly. Not a moment’s hesitation.

Trying to be heroes? Actually, many men spend much of their time trying to be ‘Mr. Nice Guy’ to women in general and their wives or partners in particular (This is no ‘wild theory’—a psychiatrist has written a book about it).

Steve Austin, whom I suspect was—perhaps unconsciously—merely doing what comes naturally and being ‘a nice guy’, responded not by fronting Tricia on her observation. Instead he smoothly went on at some length— deliberately considerate, I suspect—to tell how, in his nineteen-seventies generation, fathers were too often missing at family times like Ekka show days.

Smart guy that Steve Austin. The extent of his response gave Tricia Duffield a long moment in which to get her mind around what she had just said.

That she is an intelligent woman is evidenced by the fact that she then came back with something along the lines of, “I didn’t mean to disrespect fathers….�

I know she genuinely didn’t mean to. But the reality is, she did. And did it unconsciously. Which is the exact point of this discussion.

If she is intelligent, you may ask, how, in the first place, could she have possibly made such a gratuitously male-insulting generalisation over the public airwaves.

The answer is that her unconscious mind had spoken. In every human being, it is always a brutally straight talker, often using non-verbalmeans of communicating its view.

Tricia’s ‘accident’ illustrates the essence of a serious problem that we, as a liberated women’s society, do not properly comprehend. Human beings are good at faking it, but our true and deepest attitudes and beliefs—what many simply describe as ‘feelings’—will manifest whenever our conscious, politically-correct guard is down for even an instant. Sometimes, such as when angered, those attitudes will simply explode through all barriers.

We unhappily wonder why there is considerable friction between men and women. You will find one specific answer near, if not at the top, of the list of reasons: the unconscious attitudes embedded inside the minds of a great many ‘modern’ women. Attitudes that most of them may not even realise have been drilled and instilled into them by those with strong feminist ideologies. These attitudes are often unconsciously expressed in words and behaviours.

The problem is worsened by most men reacting just like Steve Austin. Not challenging a woman when she deliberately or inadvertently slurs, insults or degrades the male means she will blunder along throughout her life, endlessly unaware of the damage she inflicts on her personal and business relationships with men.

It helps her not at all that when she scores what she thinks is a particularly superb male-bashing home-run, her sisters—themselves suffering the same syndrome—will cheer her on with girlishly ecstatic high-fives.

They simply do not understand the consequences. There are no winners when the sexes war. The biggest losers–in alphabetical order—are children, men, society and women.

Let’s get this straight: everybody loses, women included.

Many men—of whom I am one, you may have noticed—now choose to resolve these difficulties by simply devising ways of no longer having direct contact with such women. They either physically or emotionally or intellectually distance themselves.

Not only the human male, but also the female will often take the avoidance path to evade direct conflict. Truth is, while this is a great personal self-protection mechanism, it is not at all healthy for us as a society.

Distancing oneself from the problem is, in certain circumstances, known as divorce. Another is bewailed by women desperate for babies as commitment-phobia. How many wives are there not who scream in frustration that their husbands “speak to me but don’t connect or communicate in meaningful ways�.

That increasing numbers of men are taking these alternative routes in preference to maintaining intellectual closeness or even just laying down roots—and take that as you will—is a prime reason why increasing numbers of women now end up alone in their old age.

Could it be that feminism has actually done such women terrible harm in the long term? That while many so-called ‘modern’ women busily bash the ‘bastard’ men, they unknowingly bludgeon themselves even more?

According to a Brisbane psychiatrist, many older women now seek lesbian relationships because they cannot find ‘a good man’. Men are increasingly choosing to make themselves less available to the modern, unconsciously aggressive woman. Many simply go off to fishing or the footy or find other ways to do their own women-free thing. Some literally just give up and die.

Shocked? Don’t be. Men are also human. They too have unconscious behaviours. Dying is in some cases a very effective way of turning one’s back on a society that one may have concluded has gone stark mad.

This essay is actually an appeal to intelligent women to thoughtfully consider these perspectives. Those who have the “I’m God’s gift to mankind and can do just what the hell I like and get away with it� attitude are so far away from both reason and reality that they would likely not even be reading this anyway.

Men like Steve Austin would probably never speak as openly as I do here. I think that—in terms of self-preservation—they are the smart ones. Even as I dumbly write this, I find myself fighting a natural desire to be Mr. Nice Guy and only say pleasing things about the so many lovely ladies in our society.

So why do I risk being inundated with scornful invective from women everywhere?

Only because these unconscious attitudes of many women—otherwise often truly beautiful people who deserve better—unwittingly destroy their own chances of long, loving and deeply intimate relationships with members of the opposite sex. It is just not fair to them. Such women unwittingly sentence themselves to years of loneliness and deep emotional pain and in the process also hurt men.

Men like me. That’s why.